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Moruo ke thuto ea hore na re sebelisa lisebelisoa tsa rona tse fokolang joang - joalo ka nako le chelete - ho fihlela sepheo sa rona. Moko-taba oa moruo ke mohopolo oa hore "ha ho na lijo tsa mots'eare tsa mahala" hobane "re ke ke ra ba le tsona kaofela." Ho fumana ntho e le 'ngoe, re tlohela monyetla oa ho fumana ntho e latelang e ntle. Ho haella ha se feela meeli ea 'mele. Ho haella hoa ama le monahano oa rona le maikutlo a rona.
1. Ho ipehela lintho tse tlang pele bophelong . Khaello e beha likhetho tsa rona pele mme e ka etsa hore re atlehe haholoanyane. Mohlala, khatello ea nako ea nako e behiloeng e lebisa tlhokomelo ea rona ho sebeliseng seo re nang le sona ka katleho. Litšitiso ha li hohele hakaalo. Ha re saletsoe ke nako e nyane, re leka ho rua molemo motsotsong o mong le o mong.
2. Khoebo ea ho nahana. Ho haella hoa qobella ho nahana. Rea hlokomela hore ho ba le ntho e le 'ngoe ho bolela ho se be le ho hong. Ho etsa ntho e le 'ngoe ho bolela ho hlokomoloha lintho tse ling. Sena se hlalosa hore na hobaneng re tlola lintho tsa mahala (mohlala, lipentšele tsa mahala, liketane tsa senotlolo le thomello ea MAHALA). Ts'ebetso tsena ha li na bothata.
3. Litakatso tse sa phethahaleng. Thibelo linthong tse lakatsehang e lebisa kelello kelellong le ka matla ho litlhoko tse sa fihlelloang. Mohlala, lijo li hapa tlhokomelo ea ba lapileng. Re tla natefeloa haholo ke lijo tsa motšehare ka lebaka la ho hloka lijo tsa hoseng. Tlala ke sopho e monate ka ho fetisisa.
4. Ho felloa ke kelello. Lekhetho la bofuma le thusa mehloli ea boits'oaro. Ha o khona ho lefella hanyane, lintho tse ngata li hloka ho hanyetsoa. Ho hanela liteko tse ngata ho fokotsa matla. Sena se hlalosa hore na hobaneng batho ba futsanehileng ka linako tse ling ba loana le boitšoaro. Li khutšoanyane eseng feela ka chelete empa hape le ka boikemisetso.
5. Myopia ea kelello. Maemo a khaello a re etsa myopic (leeme ho tla mona le hona joale). Kelello e shebane le khaello ea hona joale. Re hlokomoloha melemo ea kapele ka ho senya tse tlang. Re chechisa lintho tsa bohlokoa, tse kang ho ea litlhahlobo tsa bongaka kapa ho ikoetlisa. Re hlokomela feela lintho tse potlakileng mme re hloleha ho etsa matsete a manyane, leha melemo ea nako e tlang e ka ba kholo.
6. Papatso ea khaello. Sello ke karolo e eketsang boleng bo lemohuoang ba sehlahisoa. Mabenkele a mangata a theha maikutlo a khaello ho susumetsa ho reka ka leihlo la moea. Mohlala, tloaelo ea litheko ea ho fokotsa palo ea lintho ka motho e mong (mohlala, makotikoti a mabeli a sopho ka motho e mong le e mong) e ka lebisa ho thekiso e eketsehileng. Letšoao le fana ka maikutlo a hore thepa e haella mme bareki ba lokela ho ikutloa ba potlakile ka ho bokella. Tšabo ea ho fetoa e ka ba le phello e matla ho bareki.
7. Litholoana tse hanetsoeng. Batho ba lakatsa ho feta seo ba ke keng ba ba le sona. Ho haella hoa sebetsa joalo ka tšitiso ho sepheo sa sepheo, se matlafatsang boleng ba sepheo.Mohlala, mangolo a lemosang mananeong a mabifi a thelevishene, a etselitsoeng ho fokotsa phaello, hangata a thunya le ho eketsa palo ea batho ba shebellang lenaneo. Ka nako e 'ngoe batho ba batla lintho hantle hobane ba ke ke ba ba le tsona: "Joang bo lula bo le botala ka lehlakoreng le leng."
8. Ho e bapala ho pholile. Phello ea khaello e hlalosa hore na hobaneng bonyatsi hangata bo nkuoa e le tšobotsi e hohelang. Ho bapala ka thata ho fumana leano le sebetsang ka ho fetisisa la ho hohela molekane, haholo molemong oa lerato la nako e telele (kapa lenyalo) leo ho lona motho a lakatsang ho netefatsa boitlamo ba molekane oa hae. Sebapali se "thatafalloang ho se fumana" se rata ho hlaha se phathahane, se etsa maqheka, 'me se boloka bahlankana ba hakanya. Joalokaha Proust a hlokometse, "Tsela e molemohali ea ho iketsetsa se batloang ke ho ba thata ho e fumana."
9. Tsepamisa maikutlo holima mesebetsi e nang le moelelo. Ho haella ha le hona ho ka re lokolla. Khaello e tlatsetsa bophelong bo khahlisang le bo nang le morero. Ha nako e lekanyelitsoe, lipheo tse amanang le ho fumana moelelo oa maikutlo bophelong li beoa pele. Midlife hangata e matlafatsa maikutlo a hore ha ho na nako e lekaneng bophelong hore e senyehe. Re hlola thetso ea hore re ka ba eng kapa eng, ra etsa eng kapa eng, mme ra ba le boiphihlelo bohle. Re hlophisa maphelo a rona ho latela litlhoko tse hlokahalang. Sena se bolela hore rea amohela hore ho tla ba le lintho tse ngata tseo re ke keng ra li etsa maphelong a rona.